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Saturday, January 2, 2010

My New Discovery about Human Behaviour

First of all a Very Happy New Year to all of you, and as my friend says-- May your problems last as long as your New Year Resolutions...

On a special urge, although politely by Magga, I shall refrain from writing about the Powerpuff Girls( 3 lady cops) who warned us against standing near the fences of Shahpura Lake, on the last eve of 2009. But still yaar I think it was funny to watch Blossoms( the Lady Inspector) doing all the job and rest of the three, Buttercup and Blossoms( the two subordinates) quarelling like the real PPGs do. There conversation was worth eavesdropping."Tu bahut attidtude dikha rahi hai....","main kya attitude dikhaungi.. tere bhi kam nakhre nahi hai"... and so on... Well I preferred not to eavesdrop further since I was doing this for the first time, so chances were of getting caught. Moreover I have promised Magga, not to write an entire post dedicated to them
Returning back to the actual subject I am writing this post for. Yesterday I met my childhood friend Anjali. She looks a bit funny these days with her braces. But otherwise she is ...umm..umm... can't think of an adjective but I think you have got what I mean. Well this post is not dedicated to her either. It's to the discovery I made yesterday, instead. A peculiar observation about human behaviour, which has, I must quote, nothing to do with the person I just mentioned of. It's a common yet unnoticed pattern of behaviour that can be explained in a single sentence which follows. "The most natural and involuntary behaviour of a person is the one that has annoyed him/herthe most."
Let's take Shibu Soren for instance(no I am not obsessed with him). His father got killed by moneylenders, and currently he is on a spree, nipping his threats in their bud. I call this natural because one always regrets for behaviours that his/her conscience percieves to be unnatural. Further my observation is consolidated by known figures like Hitler and Napolean, and an unknown figure like one of my friends. Let's address my friend as a subject to conceal his/her identity. The subject is always afraid of getting exploited or betrayed without it's knowledge. It always bickers of the instances of exploitation and betrayal. But involuntarily, and ironically as well, it repeats these crimes a number of times. I am tagging the behaviour as involuntary on grounds that I have keenly observed and acquainted myself to the subject very well. An the shrewd activities that it bestows upon it's friends should bring about changes, minor however may be, in her body language. Or chances are there that I have missed to perceive the changes. Whatever the case may be, the subject has successfully altered,nay, shattered my ideas about human idiosyncracy. Thank you my friend!!!(if you chance to read this)